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eternalsojourn ([personal profile] eternalsojourn) wrote2011-10-13 12:03 pm

hitRECord Fall Formal

As many of you know, I went to the hitRECord Fall Formal in Los Angeles on October 10, 2011. So while I was sorely neglectful in reporting back on the Seattle hitRECord at the Movies, I’ve vowed to myself that I will report back on this one.



First, two things:

  1. I did not live tweet while I was there. First, my phone has a new contract and the company has turned off international data roaming. I didn’t think to change it before I left. Also, I’m not really one for tweeting while I’m watching stuff anyway. Maybe it’s a lack of multitasking ability, but I tend to just focus on what’s in front of me, and forget to tweet or text or do anything, really.

  2. I didn’t take a lot of photos or video. As with the tweeting thing, I tend to just forget to take pictures when I'm filling my eyeballs. Also — and I know this goes against the very philosophy of hitRECord — I don’t actually see the need to record and share my experiences in that way. My experiences are mine, and if I’m going to share them it’ll be in the way I know how: via words after the fact. It’s my way of living moment to moment, I suppose, although I don’t judge anyone who records things. I’m glad everyone does; it means I rarely have to. Also, people record better quality stuff than I do.


ON WITH THE SHOW (review)!


My Date


I was very nearly late for the show. This was due to my trying to pack in entirely too much into my day. I’d spent the better part of the day with my husband’s cousin, who lives in Santa Monica. He took me to the pier and cycling around Venice Beach. It was perfectly lovely and I left at a reasonable hour, then faced several unexpected things: namely, L.A. traffic worse than any I’d experienced thus far, and a sunglasses tan that required some serious covering. Also, I almost fell asleep at the wheel several times. D: (I had a 10 minute nap before going to the Formal in an effort not to die on the way there.)

Fall Formal Venue

Once sorted, I showed up at the theater to find that the show actually didn’t start until 8:30. YAY! So Leslie ([livejournal.com profile] sparrow_hubris) met me at the front with my ticket, and in we went.

Here I am with my luminously lovely date:
Leslie and Me

Everyone looked fab. There was one very ginger-beardy dude wearing an emerald velvet dinner jacket. There were lots of short dresses, a few very elegant open backs, some ballgowns, some three-piece suits, regular suits, and some hats (mostly on the men). All in all, it was a gorgeous crowd and everyone seemed to be quite excited to be there. It was a mix of people who either had no idea what they were even there for, and people who’d been looking forward to it with bated breath.

As with the Seattle show and all the others, there were questions on up the screen requesting answers via twitter. Since I had no internet access, Leslie tweeted on my behalf. The question was: “What does love mean to you?” I said:

Love is giving up your right to be right.

Which is not me being funny. I actually think that really making a relationship work means prioritising compassion over semantics. [Barring any actual abuse, etc.] Most of the time, my needing to be right in an argument just leads to the argument extending, and expanding beyond its original parameters, and causing more hurt than was really warranted by the original problem. If I’d just let go of the notion that I had to be right about everything, I could have smoothed things over and made my life — and his — a lot easier by just listening and talking. In the end, it’s not necessary that he agree with me on everything. ANYWAY. /philosophical rambling

Gary Oldman


Leslie and I sat for a bit, then she got up to go take some photographs with her fancy camera. A short time later she came back, breathless, saying, “Gary Oldman is here! I talked to Gary Oldman! OMG, I need to go get my picture taken with him. Let’s go!” At which point I just kind of gaped at her. But up we got, and sure enough, just 6 or so rows ahead of us, is GARY MOTHERFUCKING OLDMAN with his kids! I tried not to be too much of a goober, and I felt like a jerk asking for my photograph after he told Leslie “Okay, just this one,” when I took her picture with him. But how could I not ask? I’m still conflicted. But here! Here I am! With Gary Oldman’s hand on my waist!

Gary Oldman and Me

Then we went back to our seats and I tried not to flap my hands too much and we talked about all of our favourite Gary Oldman roles. It was the most exciting thing and the show hadn’t even started yet!

This next bit happened later, but since this is the Gary Oldman section, I will post this here.

Gary Oldman on Stage

Better quality video than mine: Gary Oldman reading a not-so-tiny story


The hitRECord Set Pieces


There was the usual mix of video, voiceovers, artwork, animation, etc. It was much as the same as the other hitRECord shows with the addition of the live band and more actual performances by hitRECord contributors.

First off, I got some not-very-great video of Joe reading a tiny story about an orange and an egg.



For the record, hitRECord contributors are freaky talented and awesome. Sia has an amazing voice, and though I preferred her first performance, this one was also fantastic. I love how powerful her voice is.

And there was Nothing Big with Tasha Taylor, who has a smoky, sultry, sexy voice and I don’t know how she stayed standing when Joe was trying to flirt with her through song. That she didn’t flirt much back frankly astonished me.

The Neil Patrick Harris sketch nearly killed me. NPH!!! Man, I’d ship this. I’d ship this so hard. For the record, they were sitting about 10-15 rows ahead of us, one aisle over. I could see the backs of their heads.

NPH and JGL

And of course, Anne Hathaway was there. She’s a lovely singer and charming on her feet.

Anne Hathaway and JGL

And A New Earth


Okay, I couldn't find video of the version that they played. [livejournal.com profile] maybelater__ found the video! I have thoughts about this moving and beautiful piece that I’ve been wanting to share since I saw it in Seattle.

The notion that our imperfection is what makes us beautiful and powerful is something that really hits home for me. As a writer, I know that the only way I’ll ever be successful is to write my way, not anyone else's.

The idea that much of the media we've been exposed to is bland, dumbed down, homogenised. We're smarter than this. I love this idea, and the piece does a marvelous job of expressing it.

However, I resist the idea that ‘corporations’ are the enemy and responsible for all this homogenisation. I resist the implication that we as consumers are victims. Rather than seeing the possibility of breaking free from the oppression of homogenised media and corporation-run society, I’d love to see people expecting accountability, from themselves and the corporations, and everyone. ‘Corporations’ are run by people — people who mostly intend good things, as unpopular as that idea might be. They’re not the enemy, and through collaboration with the people in charge of those larger entities, I think great things can happen. I think creative people can get their hands on the wheel and do responsible, exciting, creative, beneficial things. Mainly I resist the idea that this has to happen as an independent revolution, that we’re somehow special, unique and different from the people in the ‘system’. It’s a tired old us-an-them cliché that I'd like to see us evolve out of.

Final Number


JGL performing his final number.

Not kidding, even with meeting Gary Oldman, this was my favourite part of the night. Joe is infectiously excitable, incredibly charming and dances and sings like he’s in the silver screen era. I think I fell in love with him again. Not only that! The subject matter of this song is EXACTLY WHAT I THINK ABOUT ALL OF IT! The glory of what he’s doing, this collaboration, this connection, this creation: it’s been going on since the dawn of time. It’s both eternal and immediate. It’s wonderful that we're doing it now with the tools we have to hand, like the internet and digital media and good old-fashioned ink and paper. Most importantly, they’re our ideas. All of ours, put out there to share, to build on. Not squirrelled away and hidden where they'll remain static or even wither. And his conversation with God — not that I believe in God, but whatever — it was charming and wonderful. Did he really have God say “suck my cock” or was that my imagination? Anyway, this whole thing really is Joe’s baby and has his personality all over it.

Conclusion


I love him. I love what it all stands for. I love that throughout the entire show I was torn between filling my eyeballs and ears with all the creative goodness, and just dropping everything so I can go make stuff. So hopefully I can retain that feeling long enough to actually do so.

[identity profile] eamesie.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
DARLING!!!! I want to flail how much I love Joe and how lovely Gary is, but I CANNOT GET OVER HOW AWESOME AND BEAUTIFUL YOU TWO LADIES ARE ♥♥♥

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 09:05 pm (UTC)(link)
+blush+ Thank you! I don't know why I look so pink in all the photos. I'm not very pink at all. Anyway. I did feel good and had a wonderful time. ♥
ext_230: a tiny green frog on a very red leaf (shiny things)

[identity profile] anatsuno.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
SUCH a great recap, so personal and thoughtful, too. I love it muchly and I'm very glad you've opted to share with us like this. Thank you. <333

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Glad you liked it! I know it's kind of a lot of my own commentary on the messages portrayed, but then, that's how I experienced it. Actually, if it hadn't been for you specifically telling me that I need to report back, I don't think I'd have thought to pull all this together, so thank you! ♥

[identity profile] hungerpunch.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 08:59 pm (UTC)(link)
i have nothing coherent to say besides that i am soo. fucking. jealousss.

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so glad I went. Also, I totally forgot to mention Joe's clothes! He changed once at intermission, and both times... omg. OMGOMGOMGOMG. His paaaaaaants! I want to fondle him.

[identity profile] anne-jumps.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
His paaaaaaants! I want to fondle him.

*expression of earnest agreement*

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 04:09 am (UTC)(link)
Ugh, I tried not to be too creepy while I was there, but he looked good enough to eat, Jesus!

[identity profile] anne-jumps.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 10:42 am (UTC)(link)
He really did! Those pants. I also just want to use this icon.

[identity profile] hungerpunch.livejournal.com 2011-10-16 05:32 am (UTC)(link)
i've been looking at leslie's pictures and holy christ, the boy is packing ♥ ___ ♥

[identity profile] danifangirl.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 09:20 pm (UTC)(link)
I HAVE SO MUCH LOVE FOR THIS ENTIRE POST.

Meeting Gary Oldman and JGL being amazing and Hathaway being beautiful and lovely. Just all of it.

I am so happy for you that you got to go <3

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you! NGL, my kneejerk reaction was to feel chagrined about not being able to go since it was in L.A. It was my receptionist who asked me why the hell it was so impossible, and I figured it out, and it cost me next to nothing in the end, after using some airmiles. So yay! I'm really glad I got to go and telling all you about it let me live it again. <3

[identity profile] phenylic.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 10:47 pm (UTC)(link)
don't mind me, I'm just going to roll around in this post and pretend i was there :D

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't mind at all. Please make yourself at home. Would you like a cocktail?

[identity profile] phenylic.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 10:57 pm (UTC)(link)
yes please! god, everyone looks SO GOOD ♥_♥

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-13 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I love a grand occasion. Vancouver tends to treat every occasion as casual, or at best, business-casual. What's wrong with being grand? :D

And in that spirit, I think I shall make you something with top shelf liquors. Maybe some champagne with a shot of cognac and a raw sugar cube. Mmmm.

[identity profile] phenylic.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 02:55 am (UTC)(link)
LA does that too! the only grand occasions are the ones that I could never afford to go to so I make up for it by overdressing whenever possible :P (obviously, I find nothing wrong in being grand. :DDD)

i have never had that, BUT THAT SOUNDS GREAT :>

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 04:11 am (UTC)(link)
I think it's a Christmas cocktail from a book I have.

I think I'm going to start overdressing for things. Maybe it'll start to spread. :D

[identity profile] phenylic.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 04:32 am (UTC)(link)
well, i mean, i have very limited experience with cocktails in general <_< but i will definitely have to try that sometime! we can start a revolution! we could call ourselves SASS! SMART AND STUNNINGLY SHARP. or sharply stunning. I DON'T MIND. :D

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
Hahaha! I love it. No sense being humble about it, either, when the whole purpose is to be grand. *gestures grandly* *does a slow twirl*

[identity profile] phenylic.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
*twirls with you* I have these gorgeous dresses that I've only worn once for weddings or whatever, and I am just always trying to find an excuse to wear them.

what is life without some grandeur? *sighs dreamily*

[identity profile] sparrow-hubris.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
GARY FUCKING OLDMAN!!!

[identity profile] night-reveals.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
leslie did you write anything?


(also, holy shit, look at your bad self *__*)

[identity profile] sparrow-hubris.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 04:19 am (UTC)(link)
I am currently editing my nearly 300 pics from this trip. Then I'll be posting! And thank you! I clean up alright, huh?! lol
Edited 2011-10-14 04:21 (UTC)

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 04:12 am (UTC)(link)
AHHHHHHH! Thank god for you, Leslie! I'd have sat in my seat none the wiser. <333

[identity profile] night-reveals.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
Rena, you look absolutely fabulous, and you obviously had a great time <3 I laughed (warmly) at your philosophical asides, because they're all so well-thought out and smart, just like you.

Beautiful recap, dear. Thank you for sharing!


AND I HOPE YOU KEEP THAT "I WANT TO CREATE" FEELING GOING, CAUSE GUESS WHAT CHICKEN BUTT? :) I'm going to be bothering you about writing! <3

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
Em! I'm glad you so fondly put up with my philosophical ramblings. If you didn't I'd have lost you months ago. <3

And I'm simultaneously scared and relieved that you're going to hassle me. I need it, but gah! That means I have to do stuff. /o\

[identity profile] saena17.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
I just happened by your blog from the [livejournal.com profile] eames_arthur community (I've also been to your tumblr a couple of times), and I had a bit of a squee when I saw this post. I just joined HitRecord a couple of months ago, and I was really sad that I couldn't go to the Fall Formal. (I live 3000 miles away in Washington, D.C., so it wasn't ever going to happen.) Reading this post makes me feel all warm-hearted and excited about this community and these events. The fact that Gary Oldman and NPH and Anne Hathaway were there is just the icing on the cake, in my mind; it's the creativity and the collaboration that make it such an awesome thing. Sadly, I'm going to miss the Halloween gig in NYC as well (going to fabulous gigs is awesome, but helping my sister give out candy to trick-or-treaters at her new home is even more so), but it's now a dream of mine to make it to one of these things someday.

Anyway, that was all just to say thanks for such a comprehensive post. Looks like a rockin' good time!

P.S. Your philosophy on love? So right. :)

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-14 04:27 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, well hello! That's so awesome that you've joined hitRECord. I have an account there, but haven't really contributed anything yet. Everything I've created so far has been under this identity, and has been exclusively fandom-related. I'm really going to have to branch out soon, and that show was certainly inspiring.

You should go to one. It seems like they're getting planned fast and furious now, so I don't see them stopping any time soon.

And you're so right about it being about the collaboration and creation. That's the thing that draws me to the shows. I live in Vancouver where there are plenty of celebrities and have never once bothered to either ask for a picture or an autograph, or even really noticed that they're there. I just love what Joe is doing with hitRECord and think that it's the way forward for creation. Some people might be able to create things in a bubble. I can't. I'm energized and nourished by the creative energy of others, and find I can accomplish so much more when I share my thoughts and let others be inspired by them, so that I can be inspired by them in turn.

[identity profile] krytella.livejournal.com 2011-10-15 06:44 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks for writing this up! I never did write much about the Seattle show, because I figured people could watch the video of it if they wanted, but your take on it is illuminating.

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-19 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, I didn't either. I did find myself thinking a lot of things about a lot of the pieces we watched, though, so I really wish I'd written things down shortly afterwards. Oh well, I remembered to for this one at least.

[identity profile] snottygrrl.livejournal.com 2011-10-19 06:37 am (UTC)(link)
i am so jealous! i debated and debated about going, but i had the huge gig for work on the weekend right before, and was headed to seattle the thurs right after and i knew i'd be absolutely dead if i tried to fly down on monday and back on tues. so glad you got to go though ♥

[identity profile] eternalsojourn.livejournal.com 2011-10-19 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)
That's too bad; it was a great show. There was quite a lot of overlap with the Seattle show in terms of strict video content, but the rest of it was new or reworked.

[identity profile] adelaide-rain.livejournal.com 2011-10-20 07:41 pm (UTC)(link)
FUCK ME I AM SO JEALOUS. SO HORRENDOUSLY JEALOUS. IT'S A HORRID PERSONALITY TRAIT BUT I AM.

Anyway.

I am SO going to the fall formal if it's remotely feasible next year.

Both of you are utterly gorgeous. And you appear to have the shiniest, loveliest hair. You must use excellent conditioner :)